Thought for the Day:

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul.
And sings the tune
Without the words,
and never stops at all.

- Emily Dickinson

Friday, March 29, 2019

Extra Challenges

I consciously and deliberately brought a new challenge into my life despite all the other challenges I face on a daily basis. For instance, working part-time while ill, caring for my dad while ill, and just being chronically ill!

The good news is while it's still really really tough, puppy has gotten easier.

She now sleeps through the night most nights (in her crate). She can also behave enough to hang out with me and Teags in the living room where I spend much of my awake time lying on the sofa. I'm still expending more than my limit of energy, but I'm getting closer to what I can manage without being constantly crashed. This week has actually been pretty bad health wise, but not all of it is due to puppy.

Also, I am forming a bond now with puppy.  Her personality is emerging and this has made a big difference. While I would probably love any dog I met on some level, the human-canine bond (in my experience) is not instant. I think the fact that I dealt with the young puppy stuff while feeling almost constantly horrid doesn't help. That said, I remember it took some time to really bond with Teags.

As someone who trains dogs (and did before I got ill), I think that training piece helps. When you train with a dog (with positive techniques), part of what you're doing is attempting to communicate. To communicate well, you need to really get to know the other individual, what they like and don't like, what motivates them. Through our time learning together, we are getting to know each other and this helps (I believe) with the bond. Ripple has learnt some basics like sit, down, target, wait, how to crate, and now we are working on a solid retrieve (this is essential as it will be a big part of how I exercise her given my inability to really exercise).

I'm now at the point that I really love the little gold nugget. She is becoming family.

I have had so much help with her it's ridiculous. For instance, the last two Fridays someone has taken her overnight. She goes to a puppy school sometimes two mornings a week (also funded by friends).

So that's my update.




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